没有绿叶的陪衬，又怎能撑得起玫瑰的娇媚

I had gave a thought to blog about this, but I ended up with give up. I don't know how to start. ._. 
After a few days to structure my blog entry, here I am to blog about this.


Sometimes, you will find out there are many people else who you are not really related to them, but like to judge you, they can judge you from every view, academic result, personality, and even your LOOK.


I have a sister, and people beside me used to compare me and she. If you have a sister, you will know it. I know they didn't mean to become mischief-maker, they just simply like to do comparison, and judge you from their view. For me, they always said "oh god, why your sister so pretty and thin, while you look so differently with her.(this is the nicer way to criticize me, there got someone else who said I am ugly and fat)" For my sister, "why your sister so clever, but you are not so smart?" Not to say I'm smart, but they would said I'm smarter than my sister. My sister and I never gave a shit about it. Let them be. They need something to be their topic. 


Actually, I want blog about LOOKS JUDGEMENT. lol


When I was studying with Yeen Chee, he suddenly asked me, why you are not famous in Kedah, I know, because you are not pretty. hahaha. I didn't angry about it. He was just giving a statement but not a comparison, and he never meant to satire. But still, some girls will still feel hurt when they heard about this. For me, I have an antibiotic to defense this kind of situation. Why? I faced this before, even more powerful words. Actually they were hurting me that time, but day by day, I forget the hurt I faced before, or I should say, it's not hurt as before, because I am blogging this, so I can't say I forget. Talking craps, ignore me.


Let me show you guys how hurt was I. hahaha


When I was Form 4, I was good with Jack and AiLin. We always hung out together, and play together everyday. lol. I even taught them to drive without license, evil friend. 


Jack has one cousin, Jason or Daniel I forget already, just a stranger for me. But I was not for him, because he judge me. He described me and Ailin as "buy 1 free 1". Of course I'm the free one. Pretty thing always need to buy, cheap thing usually given as free. hahahaha. I even can ridicule myself now wtf. The only bad advantage for a not pretty girl mixed with a super pretty girl. If you have pretty friends, you have to have a strong heart, this actually hurt my self-esteem. lol. For all girls, this kind of comparison is hurt, if she says she don't mind. Don't believe, she actually mind, and probably her tears will roll in the night. I never tears down because of this. I rather waste my tears on those tv series, better than on this kind of judgement. That time I was so stupid, I should go in front him, used Lee Hom poster posts on his face and tell him "hello, if you handsome than him, I welcome your FREE JUDGEMENT, unluckily you are not" :/


Lee Hom is really handsome, hahaha. I know I am stupid to compare them, it's hard to find man handsome than Lee Hom. So, I lower the standard, just for you. If you handsome than this, I accept your judgement. Deeply from my heart. This pig is cute. Haih. I think it's hard for you to win him. Plastic surgery can help. Damn. I sound sarcastic. 







Yeen Chee, is only the kindergarten level. hahaha. This person, UNI level. We should give him a certificate for "high" level judgement. :)


Okay. Even faced more yeng one, when I was taking picture with pretty friends, again at AiLin organized home party, someone even hurt me by saying "You are spoiler, others are pretty, you are the ugliest". I really forget who is him. =.= If I remember, I will straight forward show his name, I am HUMBLE. hahaha. Okay. Can I consider this judgement as a kind of humiliate. Am I overlook? lol.


Seriously, girls, I just want to tell you guys. Maybe you are not the pretty one, but you are the nice one. In your family and friends' eyes. You are good enough. This kind of judgement is hurt, but you have to learn to accept. This is a kind of challenge to yourself. You can choose to feel sad for it, or motivated by this.

     Be confident! Photo credit to Kang Sze Geng 


You can become pretty if you want. Okay. I'm fail to motivated by these kind of judgement. I love eat and pimples are popping out for academic stress. =.=


Or even the proud one, tell yourself you are so good, so nice, so adorable, so cute, so there are so many pretty friends who want to mix with you.


没有绿叶的陪衬，又怎能撑得起玫瑰的娇媚。你能想象一株光秃秃的玫瑰带给你美的享受吗？


So, if anyone judges you, show him this blog entry lol. I actually want to increase my stat. :p